Seat-swapping family guilts flight passenger into changing spots over baby
An airline traveler said he or she recently encountered a seat swapper on a flight — and claimed a family “guilted” the person into switching seats.
In the forum “r/delta” on Reddit, the post was titled, “Yep. Happened to me,” as the person was heading out on a ski trip.
“Checked in early, got my seat by the window. And I really like seeing snow out from the window plane,” the user wrote.
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“And [at] the last minute, I was pulled aside by the attendant.”
The person said the flight attendant “asked me if I can change my seat with a family traveling with an infant — and they asked [for] my window seat. Flight attendant told me they have paid for my seat, to which I replied I paid for mine, too.”
A flight passenger says a family guilted them into switching seats so their baby (not pictured) could get a window spot, sparking a debate on Reddit. (iStock)
The flyer initially refused, but then “walked past a family with a baby only a few months old. And I just thought, what if that family had a similar situation? Maybe the parents are obnoxious but the child is innocent.”
The user went on, “I hate th[ose] stupid parents for guilt-tripping me [about] the baby… ugh, FINE,” wrote the user.
“Ask for a voucher or some sort of compensation.”
“I planned my trip 2 months in advance! I hate it when people do stuff like [this] and expect everyone to accommodate them! Nonetheless, they are parents, too … Have some sense of responsibility,” the flyer added.
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Reddit users took to the comments section to discuss the swapping encounter.
“Next time that happens, ask for a voucher or some sort of compensation,” suggested one user.
The Reddit post sparked a debate about blaming “families” for seat changes, with parents chiming in on the issue. (iStock)
A Redditor commented, “You could have just … you know, not moved. Keep the seat you paid for.”
Joked another user, “Sure, I’ll switch. Bump me up to first class.”
Another user said, “Never cave. I’d sit there and enjoy every bit of attitude from them.”
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People also commented on the notion of blaming “families” for seat changes — with other parents chiming in.
“My family was flying together and purchased seats long in advance so we could sit together. Fast-forward to check-in, and our seats were all over the place, which doesn’t work when you are flying with a 4-year-old. Not all of us [in] these issues are [at] fault,” shared a flyer.
“I have a small child (not pictured) and when we travel I pay to reserve seats together. It’s not that hard,” said one user. (iStock)
Another user said, “You don’t know if they planned in advance or not. Airlines mess up those reservations all the time.”
Yet another parent added, “I always reserve well in advance and select seats together, but there have still been times Delta has separated me from my kids. Cancellations, equipment changes, missed connections, you name it.”
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A user added, “I have a small child and when we travel I pay to reserve seats together. It’s not that hard.”
Gary Leff, a Texas-based travel industry expert and author of the blog “View From the Wing,” told Fox News Digital that passengers should plan ahead for their desired seats.
Passengers looking to trade seats might bargain with fellow passengers, suggested a travel expert. (iStock)
“Sometimes they book late, and there’s little available. Or a flight gets canceled, they’re put on a new flight, and they need help staying together,” said Leff.
In those cases, he said, it may not be reasonable to expect other passengers to inconvenience themselves to help.
“A toddler wanting a window makes sense. The child might even melt down without it! But the baby isn’t going to have a strong window preference,” said Leff.
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He added, “it sounds like the parents were using status as parents to get what they preferred.”
Leff suggested passengers looking to trade seats consider bargaining with fellow passengers.
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“You’re far better off looking to trade seats by offering something just as good – or better – than asking someone to give up what they prefer and get something worse in return,” said Leff.
