What cats really think when you leave house and if they miss you

This very subject prompted TikTok channel @cats.psy to shed light on precisely what is going through your pet’s mind when you leave them at home alone.

In a video, they explained: “What does your cat actually think the moment you walk out the door and leave? They notice more than most people realise. Next time you head out the door, remember your cat might miss you more than they show.

“Cats quickly learn your routine, the sound of your keys, your coat, and the door closing. Some feel a quiet sadness because they’re bonded to you. Others simply go back to sleep or patrol the house.”

The channel went on to suggest that cats can experience mild separation stress, stating: “Some cats think you’ve gone hunting and will return with food.

“Others believe you’re still standing right behind the door, which is why they wait or meow after you leave.”

How to help your cat with anxiety

Offering practical advice, the account recommended leaving a piece of clothing bearing your scent on your cat’s favourite resting spot to help soothe them during your absence.

They further advised: “A window perch or puzzle feeder can also help.”

Keeping farewells calm and brief can also go a long way in helping your cat feel safe and settled.

While it’s impossible to know precisely what a cat is thinking at any particular moment, experts at PetMD urge owners to remain vigilant for specific warning signs.

Marci Koski, CFTBS, CFTBP, owner of Feline Behaviour Solutions in Vancouver, Washington, agreed: “Cats are really attuned to patterns and daily routine.

“When something is outside of the norm or falls outside of the routine, that’s when cats can notice.

“Cats can’t tell us they’re feeling lonely, so it’s up to us to recognize the signs. By understanding the reasons behind these behaviours, we can provide our cats with the support and enrichment they need to thrive.”

A PetMD statement adds: “Although behaviour does vary some depending on personality and history, most cats are good about getting your attention when they want it.

“All of these behaviours can signal loneliness and the need for quality time. But both Merlin and Koski note behavioural changes can also indicate health issues.

“If you notice any of these behaviours persisting, take your cat to the vet to rule out any health problems.”